Do you have a list of what you planned for discussion already? Then we could make suggestions.I don’t have parents anymore, so I’ve been through this already.
I’ve been occupied the past few days working on a list for DH so that when he goes to visit his elderly dad in another state next month he can use the time there constructively.
His dad has ADVANCED Parkinson’s, and is quickly losing cognitive skills. There are questions to be asked and conversations to be had.
They are a family of procrastinators!
I am encouraging him to get together with his two siblings (same state) AND dad - so he can be a participant, to make a record of all their father’s end of life decisions before the time hits and the whole family is up in arms with grief (and ugly sibling squabbling and selfishness - omg #HISSISTER! ) and don’t know where to begin.
*all suggestions welcome in case there’s something I haven’t thought of.
You guys are the best
CHICKEN CHUMS ever.
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