Thanks for the updates everyone. I really appreciate it. I know I've been gone long enough for someone to get knocked up AND about to deliver! Mazel!!!
So, here's where I am at. I basically kidnapped my mother from Florida last year and she's been living here in KY since. She is in the beginning stages of dementia. I found her 6 new doctors here, and we've been going to them regularly. The PCP doctor here CORRECTLY diagnosed her with a thyroid issue, took her off a HUGE amount of meds she was on, and put her on something to correct her thyroid imbalance. Now she doesn't have upwards of 3 doctor appointments every week.
It's been hard, but she's learning what it's like to NOT be sick.
DH retired from the Army. He put in 22 years, 2 months and 12 days. With all of his medical issues, he is considered 290% disabled. This basically means he is considered *COMPLETELY AND PERMANENTLY* disabled, so he gets 100% disability pay.... and it will never be challenged. If something DID correct itself, there's enough still wrong with him that he would still be at 100%.
We are in the process of buying a new home. With my mom living with us, there's just not even enough room in this house. We had made plans to buy some property and then have a manufactured home built on site. Last month I was skimming through Zillow and found this house:
PM ME FOR THE ADDRESS!!!!
Take a look. It's seriously AWESOME! I couldn't be more thrilled with it. Sits on over 8 acres. The basement is finished like a 2 bedroom apartment, which is where my mom will live. (Y'all can start sending housewarming gifts on the 17th of May!!!!

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Still homeschooling the boi. However, I also started doing more work from home jobs, and was hired by Amazon. We'll be carrying 2 mortgages for a while, until we sell our current house, plus I will absolutely want some housekeeping help once we move, since the new house it literally DOUBLE the size of this house.
Our beautiful free range roo, Fat B@st@rd, finally got got about a week or so ago. We've also had a few deaths along the way, but nothing lost to winter.
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Now, the reason I quit posting here is because I just felt like I couldn't any longer. I can't say depression hit me, but a huge amount of -I don't care- did. Being my moms caretaker, with her dementia onset plus her being blind AND basically being kicked out of her retirement community, I was bearing the brunt of a lot of feelings and I shut down. Days and weeks passed in a blur and I didn't know how to come back from it all.
I am still not doing well HOWEVER, I love you guys and I want to be a part of y'all, so I am here. If I ever stop posting again, feel free to bug the bejeezus outta me (AHEMCINDIAHEM). I am southern girl and it would be bad manners if I didn't reply.... and LAWD KNOWS I ain't got no bad manners!!!!
With all the love I can muster and a pickle!
~Deila