I am hoping @RebeccaBoyd won’t need to be in hospital long enough to need a smuggled rooster. Hopefully she will be home and can recuperate at home on the sofa with him snuggling up.You know, it is perfectly okay to say 'This is personal and I don't wish to discuss it with you.' Or "Thank you for your thoughts/concerns, but this is a personal and private decision'. Or, for the real knotheads" It really is none of your business (why or what I am doing). And walk away. Given what Grandma has said about her brother and his child - I doubt that you can keep her quiet on this; honestly, I would say 'just don't tell her what is going on. Hospital stay - no divulging of reason, etc.' But, that horse has left the barn (and, unlike Russ, can't be easily put back in)
I will be thinking of you when I get up in the morning. Do you think your mom could smuggle Branch in in a couple of days - she could say he is your emotional support animal. Obviously, not immediately, as with the drugs & pain...and recent incision and all. But, a few days post op???
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Or, maybe SHE would be willing to smuggle in 'the Devil's spawn'???![]()
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