I don't know Bob but animals go through periods just like us. My cats are bonded brothers. I dread the day I lose one of them but @ present Kirby would like to take Marlow out in the biggest possible way. I am always finding Kirby standing over Marlow snarling & Marlow cringing. Something has upset Kirby's equilibrium. I tend to thing it is to do with their relationship with me. Marlow likes to hog me & Kirby wants his share of loving too. I try to be fair but it doesn't seem to be about fair...

I'm less certain with the birds. It seems to have to do with what happens during the day. I hate missing feed time because I know that's when every girl takes the opportunity to bond with me. Some are more demanding than others. Ha'penny really lets me know she wants special attention ~ & that from a chook that won't be handled! Others get upset with her because she keeps them away. Lower order girls are always looking to me to see if they can get a little something before it's their turn. I try but the dynamics are really complicated & some nights it's a blood bath!